But Who the Hell Knows!?

A podcast to share my thoughts about life, relationships, health, and everything in between.

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Stop Complaining when you Have a Choice

24:55

In this episode, I explore the power of choice in our daily lives. From choosing whether to engage with triggering social media posts to setting boundaries with people who try to walk all over us, we have more control than we often realize. I share personal experiences about learning to make conscious choices rather than defaulting to passive reactions. We'll discuss how recognizing our freedom to choose - whether it's pursuing our dreams, walking away from drama, or prioritizing our own happiness - can be both empowering and challenging. This episode aims to remind listeners that while we can't control everything, we always have the power to choose our responses and actions.

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Let's Talk About Sex (Yes, Really!)

32:32
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In this episode, I tackle the elephant in the room: sex. Despite being one of the most natural human experiences, it remains shrouded in shame, embarrassment, and awkward silences. I explore why we're comfortable discussing almost everything else - from mental health to financial struggles - but still blush at the mention of intimacy. Through candid discussion, we'll examine how cultural norms, religious influences, and generational trauma have contributed to making sex such a taboo topic. I share thoughts on why open conversations about sex are crucial for healthy relationships, personal well-being, and society as a whole. This episode aims to normalize discussions about sexuality while maintaining respect and sensitivity.

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From Advice to Judgement: The Dark Side of Mom Groups

22:38

In this episode, I dive deep into the complex and often toxic world of mom groups on social media. From passive-aggressive comments to outright mom-shaming, we explore how these supposedly supportive spaces can become breeding grounds for competition and judgment. I share personal experiences and observations of how mothers constantly try to one-up each other - from bragging about their children's milestones to criticizing others' parenting choices. We'll discuss why it's so hard for moms to genuinely celebrate each other's successes and how this competitive culture affects maternal mental health. This episode aims to shed light on the dark side of mom groups and encourage more authentic, supportive relationships among mothers.

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The Pregancy from H**L that Almost Killed Me

55:16

In this episode, I share my harrowing experience with multiple pregnancy complications including peripartum cardiomyopathy and pubic symphysis dysfunction. I discuss how these conditions impacted my pregnancy journey, the challenges of managing multiple serious health conditions simultaneously, and my ongoing journey with perimenopause. This raw and emotional episode aims to raise awareness about these lesser-known but serious pregnancy-related conditions.

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He Cheated, But She Stayed for the Money

15:56

In this episode, we explore the controversial story of a high-profile relationship where a wealthy businessman's infidelity became public knowledge. Despite the scandal, his wife chose to maintain their marriage, sparking debates about love, money, and societal expectations. We dive deep into the complexities of their relationship and examine the various factors that influenced her decision to stay.